Hello leyn, mag-consult sana ako kung paano magpapapayat ng binti  or kung anong bagay na damit para sa akin. medyo malaki kasi ung binti ko. tapos may scar pa kaya problemado ako sa mga isusuot ko lalo na pag skirt. i hope na marereplyan mo itong message ko

More Power and Thank you,
Nica

Dear Nica,

Unfortunately, I also have the same problem and I myself have been longing for solutions. Haha. But don’t worry, I’ll still share some tips and help you, fashion-wise.

Well, my legs are not that big but they’re fuller than usual (knowing that I have skinny built). I have no idea if I got them from swimming or biking when I was still young. According to fitness gurus, we develop leg muscles if we work out too much or we got used with certain activities (like biking) from childhood. Some say the best way to reduce leg muscles is not move at all, which sounds ridiculous. If those aren’t muscles but leg fats, then it’s because of genes. Whether you have muscles or fats, the most effective way to lessen them is through dieting with proper exercise – which is one of the hardest thing to do in this world. Haha.

So your Plan B would be about fashion: on how to look fashionable without highlighting your legs. Black tights or leggings are effective in lengthening your legs but unsuitable for hot weather. Maxi Dresses can be an alternative for short skirts this summer.

If long dresses aren’t your thing, stick to clothes that are not too long nor to short – like an inch below the knee or knee-length pleated skirts. Avoid pencil cut style or bodycons.

You can also research on certain exercises that can make your legs lean. Of course, it takes time and patience unless you’re willing to undergo surgeries. Hehe.

Best of Luck!

Love Lots,

Leyn

dear ms leyn,

hi. its my first time to visit your site and im really interested about your fashion tips. I was really having a hard time kasi finding a graduation dress that fits my size and i think that i have an apple size body figure, but im not so sure about it. I have this big bust. 38-C. But, my auntie gave me this floral sleeveless knee-length dress. i dont know if it looks good on me (coz i dont know to judge myself) hehe. Anyway can u help me, and give me some tips on how to improvise it and make me look good on it. thank you sooo much.

-aj-

I’ve been receiving a couple of e-mails everyday about graduation dresses and I’ve been answering them repeatedly so please don’t hate me if I can’t reply to all. Hehe.

Anyway, dear -aj-,

All in all, your issue is having the apple body type. Thus, to keep your figure balanced as a whole, attention should also be drawn on the lower part of your body. So basically, the style of dress I’m suggesting is something that appears like an hour glass figure.

I have no idea what type of dress your aunt gave you but I hope it could be altered to a balloon skirt style. In case you no longer have the time to shop for dresses like cited above, wear a pleated underskirt for an A-line effect. Ruffles on the skirt hem can also add volume to balance off the dress that fits your body type.

In addition, wear high-heels (or at least 3″) to elongate your legs especially if you’re wearing a knee-length dress.

Even on your daily attire, take note of these basic tips so you won’t feel mindful with your body problem. Congratulations on your graduation!

Love Lots,

Leyn

hi ms leyn, please help me. i really need a formal dress coz im going to attend a wedding this coming may. I’ll be one of the reader din kc kaya medyo naghahanap na ko ngayon. saan ba magandang maghanap ng dress? gusto ko sana yung something unique. I have a inverted triangle body type, 5″4, fair complexion and medyo malaki yung arms ko. i really want to hide it.and one more thing violet and green motif nila do i need to buy a dress with the same shade? kc ayoko naman ng magmukhang kasama sa abay. sobrang naguguluhan na ko. please help me. really need your advice.

Thank you.
anne

Dear anne,

For store reference, you can check my previous answers here [1,2].

Fashion-wise, you don’t have to literally follow the motif of the wedding but you can still have the motif shades on your outfit in some ways. Just be creative! For example, you can wear a green dress and black pumps then match your outfit with purple jewelries. Or wear a purple dress then tone it with a green headband and purse. This is to avoid looking like a part of the entourage. I’m sure the bridesmaids will wear green + purple: two colors in one gown so be dressed in something different:

I hope you get what I mean basing on the suggestions above. Regarding your figure problem, try to look for dresses with drape sleeves and details. I don’t discourage you to wear sleeveless but please avoid tube and halter styles. Also, I don’t think wearing a shawl is the answer.

Since you’ll be wearing striking solid colors for the wedding, just apply neutral make-up instead of using green or purplish shades so you won’t look overdressed.

No worries and enjoy planning until the said occasion.

Love Lots,

Leyn

Dear Sosyalera,

Hi Leyn! I am one of your blog’s avid reader even my husband is reading it with me. Enjoy kasi kami sa mga articles mo especially sa mga not-so-pang-ookray mo sa mga bagay bagay.

Anyway, I just want your suggestions because I need to upgrade my wardrobe especially now that I am working again as Receptionist in a Construction Consultancy here in Dubai. I want to try something different and I want to look simple but smart. I am chubby, my tummy is round. (hahaha) that’s why I prefer to wear dark colored clothes to hide my “bilbil”. I want to wear clothes that is comfortable because I can feel the Summer heat right now. Please suggest also the right shoes/sandals, accessories, hair style (I have a straight long hair). FYI I’m not comfortable wearing high heels but I could try mid-heels shoes/sandals because most of the time I am wearing flat shoes. I am planning to go for a shopping end of this month so I hope you could help me on this.

Thanks Leyn!! Looking forward to your reply. More Power! Ingat.

Ang Iyong Tagasubaybay,

Jhanna

Dear Jhanna,

Wow, may reader pala ako sa Dubai. Now I want to cry. Wenk. Anyway, thank you thank you.

I just hope that the clothes I’ll recommend are wearable within your taste. Basically, your main issue is how to hide your stomach flab. Again, here are the basics before choosing the right style:

• Pick dark colored clothes.
• If you want light colors for your base clothing, the fabric should be crisp and avoid spandex.
• Minimize styles that shows division like wide belts or contrasting colored tops and bottoms.

Tops & Dresses
I guess you already know that wearing empire cut tops and dresses is the best way to hide abdominal flabs; though if you think that this style will just make you look pregnant, there are tops that have ties or ribbons that can be knotted around the waist. For tank tops, sleeveless hem tops are better than the semi-fitting ones. Be particular with the prints and design but stick to these tummy flattering clothes:

Dresses can be worn alone but just for the sake of mixing and matching, pair them with leggings or black slacks.

Cardigans
Tops and dresses may look casual so always keep a smart blazer/cardigan in your locker. I know they’re not weather friendly but cardigans can make a casual dress look formal. Try on white or any light shade for this summer.

Shoes
Fashion-wise, mid heels pumps are better to add up height. Kung nahihirapan kang maglakad then be in platforms or wedge. It’s okay to wear flats but as always suggested, make sure you buy the latest styles. Flats with detailed designs like straps and fancy stones can brighten up a plain outfit.

Accessories
As a receptionist, you should always look elegant in front of the clients. So for accessories, a simple set of jewelries are way better than big necklaces or earrings.

Hairstyle
Always tie your hair to look neat and fresh all day. Practice doing a half up do style like these:

Good luck to your work and Happy Shopping this weekend!

Love Lots,

Leyn

Hi!

I got a peek at your blog and since I’m desperate, I decided to email. Anyway, my college graduation is coming up, this Sunday to be exact. I already have a dress and my problem is with the hair and makeup. Due to some school traditions, our graduation won’t be held in airconditioned places and it will be held only in our field. My problem is that with the weather these days, I’m afraid my hair and makeup will be completely ruined and melted once I get up on the stage and I’m one of the last to be called. Any tips and suggestions? I love the natural makeup look suggestion in one of your posts by the way so I’m opting for that one. Much love and thanks in advance.

Areej

Dear Areej,

So all in all, your concern is how to maintain your hair and make-up during the graduation rites, right? I’m gonna make this short for you. I’ve already answered an email about graduation hairstyle and just like what I’ve suggested, go with an up hairstyle but make sure you can still wear the cap. If you’re gonna be able to fix your hair neatly with spray or mousse, it will be in place even for long hours. Come up with styles like these:

For make-up, (though I’m uncertain which post you were referring to) I always advise simple and natural looking make-up that will blend with your true skin tone so the colors won’t look smeared when you perspire. The secret for fresh looking face all day is to use quality make-up. So test the brands you’ll use and practice your look. Mineral make-ups are better and skin-friendly. Avoid stick concealers and use liquid foundation as base make-up because sticks are more prone to melting.

Bring a small pouch in handy with oil film, face tissue and blush brush. When you do retouches, use a brush instead of a sponge for an even application of powder.

Just make your aura simple and tidy so you can easily maintain your look the whole day. Congratulations!

Love Lots,

Leyn

hi Ms. Leyn!

good day! hello, sobrang fan mo ako at lagi ko sinusubaybayan ang site mo.

anyways, tulad ng ilan na nag email sayo, gusto ko rin sana humingi ng tulong, di ko kasi alam kung ano ang mga damit na babagay sa skin tone at shape ng body ko. i am 21 years old, morena, 5′2, 43kg, flat-chested. anu-ano ba ang make-up na babagay sa skintone ko? ano rin mga simple style ng damit ang babagay sa akin? before kasi, pag nagagandahan ako sa damit, sinusuot ko nalang.
i dont mind na kung hindi bagay. i want to change my style na.

salamat! more power!

-Keneisha

Dear Keneisha,

Good day! Well, girls with fairer skin don’t have much problem with regards to fashion because any color or shade suits them. Yes it’s true that being morena is not an issue but not all colors complement darker skin. So basically, start with knowing what shades are right for you.

Avoid bright colors like shocking yellow, bloody red, orange, neons and start collecting clothes with earthy shades and pale hues. If wearing light colors is really your thing, you can be dressed in ivory, off-white and beige. Black is okay but it might just make you look darker.

I don’t think your skinny built is really a problem. Remember that other girls spend a lot of time and money just to be thin. So despite of being flat-chested, enjoy your thin body and wear any clothes you want. Your height is even on the average side so any dress is fine. Give attention to your other assets like your shoulders or long arms then flaunt them by wearing halter tops and tube dresses. But for the sake of updating you with fashion, here are my picks:

Tops

• Razor Back Tank Top – to emphasize your shoulders and back. Also recommend this summer.
• Ruffles – if you’re uncomfortable with your flat chest then buy blouses with details and ruffles.
• Embelished Design – same with ruffled tops. Designs like bow and ribbons could add up shape to your straight body.

Dresses

• Flowing – instead of body fitting type switch to flowing dresses.
• Volume Dress - adds up shape.
• Tulip Skirt - can give you an hour glass figure.

With make-up, it’s just the same with clothes – stick with natural or earthy colors. Avoid make-up with a hint of pink, blue, fuchsia or purple unless it’s needed for an occasion. With everyday use, my picks are brown, beige, tan and the most daring you can use is gold. On cheeks, it’s better to use bronzer or brown contour instead of reddish blush.

I remember several years ago that I wear anything that I think looks good on me. I now regret on that attitude because looking back at my fashion statement, I wasn’t stylish at all. So before you shop, try to check online what are the latest pieces so you can wear what’s the trendiest and at the same time feel good with what you wear. For example, make it a habit to check the TOPSHOP website then find cheaper alternatives (with the same styles) if you’re budget conscious.

So go, now is the time to change your style.

Love Lots,

Leyn

Hello! I’m currently a college freshie at UPM. So sadly, walang uniform. Uwian ako so I have to look at least a bit presentable pag nagcocommute. Pero I’m sick of the ordinary t-shirt/jeans get-up. Yun na ang parang uniform ko eh. I want to try new clothes that are comfortable enough but still fashionable. Any advice po ate?

-Zelley

Dear Zelley,

Hi there! My iskolar friends told me that UP doesn’t require dress codes, good for you. It seems that the usual shirt-jeans is boring you already so let’s rather change your fashion statement. Personally speaking, I have my own way of looking fashionable during casual days without overdressing. Here are some tips:

Dresses
You have to start with collecting casual dresses. Oversized tops and jerseys are recommended to feel comfortable even when commuting. If you’re a keen shopper, you can find affordable tunics with the same price like the shirts you wear. Choose simple colors and prints so you can easily accessorize. Check these samples on how to bring together an entire outfit:

Jumpsuits
Dresses may be a bit girly so jumpsuits are your second option. Same as the dresses, buy pieces with minimal prints. Whether you prefer dresses or jumpsuits, basically choose styles that are relaxed, made of thin fabric and flowing.

Shoes
You should collect at least 3 shoes for schooling: Strappy Flats, Canvas Sneakers and a pair of Ballerina Shoes. These everyday flats can go along with any kind of outfit. Make sure the shades you pick for your footwear match almost all of your clothes.

Bags
As much as possible, give up on the boyish back-pack to improve your school outfit. You can keep 2 bags for everyday use: a body-bag type and a retro-ish tote.

Accessories
One key to upgrade your simple outfit is to pick the right accessories. Para hindi takaw-holdup, just wear fancy long necklaces with charms that tone with solid colored dresses.

The fashion I want you to achieve may look simple but you can start from there. I advise smooth clothes so you can freely move and it won’t feel sweaty when you commute.

Thanks for dropping by on my blog.

Love Lots,

Leyn

dear miss leyn,

ikaw na. ikaw na ang savior ng mga jologs at naming mga hirap pumorma. ga-graduate na ko from college sa march 24 at pinoproblema ko ang isusuot ko sa gradball on march 22. black and white cocktail yung theme at wala pa kong isusuot hanggang ngayon dahil wala akong idea kung san tamang bumili. problema ko din yung sapatos, kasi naiilang ako maglakad pag naka-heels. 5′3 ako, long hair, at mas maputi ng konti sa ordinaryong pilipina.

p.s. may pagkabalbon ako. ibig bang sabihin nun e aahitin ko legs ko?

Dear A,

Ikaw na. Ikaw na ang gagraduate. Hehe. Anyway, you only have a week before the grad ball and hopefully you have already shopped for a dress. You didn’t specify what style you’re eyeing for so I’ll answer this shortly. In case you still haven’t decided with what to wear, then choose a simple dress with black and white color combination.

Your height isn’t that bad so you don’t have to wear super high heels. You can wear 2″ heels and just pick shoes with flashy design like ribbons, gems and stones. Bright colors like cobalt and cerulean shoes look good with the classic Little Black Dress.

I know your main concern is where to buy the dress so I’d still go with the stores I always mention on my previous posts [1,2,3]. (Calliope, PRP, Zara, The Ramp, Promod etc.) It actually depends on your budget and the type of dress you want to buy, simple LBDs are available on most girl stores.

And with your legs, use wax strips instead of shaving. An effective waxing set costs about 500 so if you’re on a budget, use Veet cream for as low as 100 pesos.

Congratulations by the way!

Love Lots,

Leyn

Dear Leyn,

I am Mark, 24 years old stands 5′9, kailangan ko ng tulong sa isusuot ko sa wedding ng friend ko. I will be a guest and the dress code is formal afternoon gagawin ang wedding. My friend told me that I can sport a smart casual attire, my only problem is I am on the stocky or chubby side type. Lagi akong disaster pagdating sa fashion, di ko alam ang tamang isusuot. Nakita ko yung mga previous posts for smart casual attires and medyo for lean guys yun. I attached here the photo na nakita ko sa web, dyan ako kumuha ng idea. FYI di ako fan ng tucked polo or shirts.

Thank you very much and I appreciate the time and effort. Goodluck and God Bless.

Dear Mark,

I hope my response is not yet late in time for the wedding. Well first, I’m unsure with the venue of the wedding (air-conditioned or open area) so we’ll just prioritize fashion instead of comfort, ‘k.

Buti nalang tucking in of shirt is not your thing because it will just show a division between your upper half and legs. I think your prospect outift (image attached) is all right and can go together with your fuller physique particularly the folded up sleeves. The idea of wearing a polo with front pockets is better if you plan to wear a skinny tie. It won’t make you look too corporate or an encyclopedia agent. Pick soild neutral colors (gray shades) aside from white.

For an added flare to your plain looking top, use a skinny tie with textured colors with the same color shade of your shirt. Just in case the wedding will be held in closed halls, then you can consider wearing a slimming blazer and plain shirt as undergarment. The fabric of the blazer should be crisp to avoid folds and bulkiness. The style is apt for formal events without looking too geeky. Whether you decide to wear a blazer or shirt, stick with the 3/4 style of sleeves.

Match your attire with a pair or loafers or plimsolls. Black is classic but I suggest a lighter color like brown or taupe.

Your built may look heavy but your tall height balances it off. So focus on emphasizing your tall height with clothes that outlines your height.

Good luck too!

Love Lots,

Leyn

Good day leyn!

I became your avid fan ever since I learned your website. I always read your post and try to become updated.   But if I’m not mistaken, there are only few articles which talk about hairstyles specifically for students. I want something fashionable but would not resemble the trendy ones. I believe that hairstyles and fashion should not be seasonal that’s why I look forward to hip look but classic one for my hair makeover.

I wish you could suggest and make articles regarding hair styles which have low maintenance because most college students like me commute in public jeepney. Anyway, I have a diamond-shape face, with dark complexion. God Bless! Hope you can help. thanks a lot.

-Mea-

Dear Mea,

Thanks for being an avid reader (let’s just put it that way, hehe) of this site. And yes, there are only few posts about hairstyles since most e-mail senders have issues with clothing.

You’ve mentioned that you prefer classic hairstyles that’d go with your student lifestyle. I hope the suggestions will somewhat help you because I’ll be naming the usual hairdos though low maintenance for commuters like you.

As I always mention on my previous posts, you should first think if your hair type can manage the hairstyle you desire. Again, short hair is better with fine strands unless treated. To being with, Bob hairstyle is recommended for short length. I know that’s one “in trend” hairdo but the layered form of bob cut will make you look younger instead of the straight trimmed.

If you choose shoulder length hair, add texture to the ends to avoid it looking buhaghag. Ask the hair cutter to trim from the inside and make the ends thinner but maintain the volume from the top of your head up to the lower ear. This cut fits your diamond shaped face. Though for me, shoulder length is more prone to fly away ends and your hair tends to shape by itself especially when you use pony tails.

Well I think the most low maintenance hairdo is still the down straight style. Yes, long hair may tend to get messy when you commute but you can tie it and style on occasions. (This applies to girls with naturally straight hair).

I’ll give a tip on how to tie your hair – instead of just using the usual pony tail, practice teasing up the front part of your hair and clasp it with a clipper. I use a hair spray/mousse to hold the teased part and it’s effective in maintaining my hair to look tidy all day. Because I got used with this style, I can do this in less than 10 minutes.

Dye your hair after you have decided on the type of cut if you really want to have a “hair makeover”. To go with your morena complexion, avoid hair color that has copper, red and rusty shade and pick natural light brown. Ensure that the color will turn out right because most hair color products have a tendency to look rusty. Just stick with these colors instead:

Anyhow, I only cited a few because I always want to give realistic advices. Hehe. It’s really hard to keep a clean and prim hair (particularly for commuters) so also invest on improving the hair quality so you can effortlessly fix it.

Oh well, I hope you you’ll have a successful makeover!

Love Lots,

Leyn