Hi Leyn,
Hope you’re doing fine. I was searching the internet for formal wedding attires/cocktail dresses, when I found your blogspot. It’s really cool & interesting.
I would like to ask for your advice as well. I am attending a wedding by the end of the month of my high school guy friend. I’m not the fashion forward type, just a simple dresser (jeans, polo shirts, sneakers. BTW I’m a girl, late 20s). The wedding ceremonies will start by 4 pm, and the attire should be formal (american style). I tried to look this up on the net, but I’m not quite sure yet how it is defined sa Philippine setting.
I stand at 5′2″, morena type, have big arms, flabs on the stomach & a little heavy on the thighs..Obviously, I don’t have the perfect body, but of course I still want to look good on the wedding. Do you have any idea what I should wear? What shoes & accessories should I invest on? I want to look simple but elegant…Where can I find affordable ones?
Appreciate it very much if you can help. More Power! Thanks!
Sincerely,
T
Dear T,
I’m doing great here. Good thing you landed on my page. Now, let’s enumerate the ideas:
American Style
First, think of an American stereotype movie with garden wedding scenes. Attendees are usually dressed up in simple and short cocktail dresses so basically, it’s not far from a Filipino style wedding (except that men should wear tuxedo instead of barong tagalong.)
Wedding Theme
Second, know the wedding’s motif. The theme might be pure white, pink, purple etc. Your dress should at least blend with the wedding’s motif to avoid catching too much attention. If you want a safe color that looks proper in any motif, try beige or any earthy colors to also match your complexion.
Cocktail Dress
Next is to apply basic fashion for fuller size shapes. I’ve mentioned before that darker shades of clothes are more appropriate for plus size figures. Plus according to some fashion experts, wearing black or dark colors in wedding events are okay as long as you’re not part of the entourage. Know what style/cut of dress will flatter your figure. If your bottom or thighs look heavy, try fitting a knee length empire cut dress. In this way, your hidden flabs around your waist won’t be noticeable and you can freely move throughout the event.
Blazer
If having bigger arms is a problem and you’re not comfortable exposing them, then look for a dress with butterfly sleeves and show off some shoulders. As an alternative, a tube/sleeveless dress is fine then you can match it with a black blazer. No shawls please.
Mid-Heels and Elegant Accessories
Wear an open toe mid-heel sandals with a touch of gold or silver. Your sandals doesn’t have to be expensive but there are lots of sandals that looks cheap and sirain so be selective when you shop. There are so many good finds in VNC, Celine (P700-P2500) or Landmark (P300-P900).
In my opinion, accessories, hairstyle and make-up make a difference. With your skin tone, neutral colored make-up fits better and don’t forget to apply bronzer on your cheeks. Smear a flesh lip gloss over a brownish shade of lipstick.
Borrow a simple gold jewelry set from your mom or friend because big plastic accessories are not suitable with formal occasions like this. Lastly, carry a clutch instead of oversized shoulder bags.
I can’t cite several stores because it depends on your budget. Though one store I can think of is People Are People (P900-P2000), they sell cheaper cocktail dresses compared to other boutiques. You can come up with looklet fashions like shown below. (Ignore the system generated models, they’re annoyingly skinny.)
I bet other high school friends will also attend the wedding so make sure you look best on that day. Good luck.
Love Lots,
Leyn