Category Archives: women's clothing

Black & White Grad Ball

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Posted by leyn on March 13, 2010 – 12:00 am
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dear miss leyn,

ikaw na. ikaw na ang savior ng mga jologs at naming mga hirap pumorma. :) ga-graduate na ko from college sa march 24 at pinoproblema ko ang isusuot ko sa gradball on march 22. black and white cocktail yung theme at wala pa kong isusuot hanggang ngayon dahil wala akong idea kung san tamang bumili. :( problema ko din yung sapatos, kasi naiilang ako maglakad pag naka-heels. 5′3 ako, long hair, at mas maputi ng konti sa ordinaryong pilipina.

p.s. may pagkabalbon ako. ibig bang sabihin nun e aahitin ko legs ko? :)

Dear A,

Ikaw na. Ikaw na ang gagraduate. Hehe. Anyway, you only have a week before the grad ball and hopefully you have already shopped for a dress. You didn’t specify what style you’re eyeing for so I’ll answer this shortly. In case you still haven’t decided with what to wear, then choose a simple dress with black and white color combination.

Your height isn’t that bad so you don’t have to wear super high heels. You can wear 2″ heels and just pick shoes with flashy design like ribbons, gems and stones. Bright colors like cobalt and cerulean shoes look good with the classic Little Black Dress.

I know your main concern is where to buy the dress so I’d still go with the stores I always mention on my previous posts [1,2,3]. (Calliope, PRP, Zara, The Ramp, Promod etc.) It actually depends on your budget and the type of dress you want to buy, simple LBDs are available on most girl stores.

And with your legs, use wax strips instead of shaving. An effective waxing set costs about 500 so if you’re on a budget, use Veet cream for as low as 100 pesos.

Congratulations by the way!

Love Lots,

Leyn

Pear Shaped Body Type

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Posted by leyn on March 9, 2010 – 8:00 pm
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Dear Ms. Leyn,

Hi! First time kong magsulat dito. Well I’m not really into fashion or looking good but recently medyo nabobother na ko sa itsura ko and sa figure ko. Unproportioned kasi yung body ko, maliit sa taas and mataba sa baba. Lalo na yung balakang ko. I just wanna ask kung anu bang mga klase ng damit yung dapat kong isuot. I’m a college student and sa school namin mas madalas kaming nakacasual kesa nakauniform so I want advice on clothes that I can wear to school. Thanks a lot. ^_^

Rosette

Dear Rosette,

According to your description, I think you have the Pear shaped figure. Just a recap, there are 4 common female body types:

  • The Banana or straight type is typical with skinny girls. This body type doesn’t have too much problem with regards to clothes. The shape can wear almost any style from volume dresses to fitting skinny jeans.
  • The Apple shape is the body type where your shoulder to bust line looks heavier than your bottom part.
  • The Pear shape is the reverse Apple where the hip and butt part looks fuller than the upper half.
  • The Hour Glass is an ideal body shape because of the proportioned figure and balanced curves. The hour glass is like the Banana body type because any clothing complements the shape.

But let’s focus on the pear shaped body type. The key for pear shaped figures is to draw attention to the upper half of the body in order to divert attention from the hips and thighs; the result is apparently a balanced body.

Bootcut Pants
Bootcut style is recommended for pear shaped women. The cut is flattering because it widens below the knee and slightly broadens at the bottom. This cut makes an appearance of slimmer thighs and hips.

Flared Skirts
Pear shaped women will find the skirts to be comfortable and pleasing. The skirt should fit well at the top and flares out as it goes down – which gives a minimizing look for the hips.

Detailed Blouses
Wear detailed, colorful tops then match with simple, dark colored bottoms. Details such as beading, an intricate sleeves or neckline on a colorful top draw people’s attention to your top half.

Mid-Heels Sandals
Heels can add up height so practice wearing (at least) mid-heels as casual wear.

Basically, your bottom (jeans/skirt) should be dark colored then apply pear-shaped-flattering clothes on your top. Avoid trousers with back or extra pockets and pick the simple style. The fact that you’re starting to get conscious with your appearance means that you need to upgrade your everyday look. Start from the basics and sort out your current clothes that don’t tone with your figure.

Now worries dear. Right clothing can rescue you. :)

Love Lots,

Leyn

Yellow Cocktail Dress

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Posted by leyn on March 8, 2010 – 3:00 pm
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hi ms Leyn!

im going to attend a wedding this coming april. medyo ngayon palang nagpe-prepare nako kasi kapatid ng boyfriend ko yung groom. kabado kasi ako dahil may mga relatives sila na first time ko mami-meet. and yung bride kasi, first time ko rin mami-meet.

medyo paranoid na ko ngayon pa lang kaya naghahanap na ko ng dress na isusuot. sa dami kasi ng choices ko, hindi ko alam kung anong bibilhin. sa online shops palang naman ako tumitingin-tingin. pero i prefer na sa botique ako makabili para masukat ko muna at makita kung babagay sa kin. i really want to look nice on that day yet simple. i stand 5′2 in height. morena ako and hindi naman ako masyadong payat. im only 20 years old.

advice naman kung saang botiques ako pwede maghanap na hindi gaanong pricey pero unique yung styles na hindi pang-oldies yung dating at hindi cheap tignan, yung accesories din na dapat ko gamitin. pati yung itsura ko sana from top to toe. hindi kasi ako pala make-up eh. pati ano bang magandang gawin sa buhok ko, since summer yun? *btw, yellow and gray ata yung motif nila.

thanks so much!!

<3lots,
innah

Dear innah,

I get that you’re planning to buy a dress for a wedding event and you’re scouting for stores where to buy. Well, I don’t want to have duplicate answers so you might want to check this link, which I’ve already recommended for prom dresses. (Let me just add the stores, People are People and Calliope.) I won’t suggest something bongga and attention catchy so a simple cocktail dress is a good choice. Be particular with the design so the dress would fit a formal party and won’t seem to prom-y. Just like meeting the parents, leave a good impression and avoid overdressing.

With your skin tone, yellow can complement morena complexion depending on the shade you choose. Pick light yellow (close to off-white) and avoid too much prints. Take a dress with solid color or simple design then if you want more details, add a black or dark gray belt. Assuming that you don’t have problems with your figure, then any shoulder/neckline style will fit you.

On shoes, wear a mid-heels sandals. If your dress or accessories don’t have the “gray accent”, then you can apply the color with your shoes. Come up with an entire outfit like this:

And as I always advise, a simple jewerlry set can make you look classy despite of wearing a plain dress. Borrow a set of golds or pearls. Also, everyone draws attention to your face first so make sure you have the right make-up colors – bronze, beige, and brown.

Lastly, style your hair up with a tidy knot instead of pony tail.

You still have a month, good luck!

Love Lots,

Leyn

Meet the Parents

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Posted by leyn on February 27, 2010 – 7:00 pm
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Hi!

I really find your site helpful especially in the fashion section :) I just want to ask what type of clothing can I wear in meeting “the parents”? :) Thank you.

Trx

Dear Trx,

Good day!  Basically, meeting “the parents” should leave a good impression so stay simple, that’s it. Although, your outfit should also portray your personality. For example, if you’re a girly gal, stick with a light sundress or any dainty clothing. Then if you’re the casual type of person, wear a blouse and slim jeans.

Pick light colors like pastel shades, white or peach. For an updated fashion, tulip dresses are all the rage this season.

There’s nothing wrong if you’re in flip-flops or rubber slippers but you’ll look more prepared with flat sandals that can go along with any outfit. Same with tops. Choose your best blouse instead of your regular boyish t-shirt.

Avoid using too much make-up and dark shades. Don’t apply lipstick and use a lipgloss instead. Cover dark circles using a concealer and give a final touch with a light face powder. One more thing, I just assumed that this day will be a simple gathering but upgrade your outfit to a simple cocktail dress if you’re going out for a formal dinner.

Break a leg and always flash a smile!

Love Lots,

Leyn

Mix and Match

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Posted by leyn on February 26, 2010 – 7:00 pm
Filed under beauty & wellness, women's clothing

Sosyalera,

Hi, hope everything’s well with you. I’ve started browsing your site a week ago and now I can proudly say that am a BIG Fan of yours just like the others. I found your advices and opinions very useful to your readers which inspired me to write also some of my concerns regarding my so-called-fashion-and-everything. haha.

ganto po kase, i’m working as a secretary in one of the prestigious universities here in manila i’m 22, standing 5′6″, fair skin and medium built. My problem is not that malala. meron lang kasing mga tao na pumupuna sa daily outfit ko. (BTW wala kaming uniform.) I’ve been working for three years of having no permanent outfit so mejo mahirap nuh? sinasabi nila na maganda daw ako magdala ng damit and kahit anu daw isuot ko bagay. on my part, its flattering and at the same time. nakaka ilang or nakaka pressure in a way na hindi ko na alam kung isusuot ko pa ba yun ulit dahil sa napansin na nila? waaa I hope am making sense here. pasensya naman if am not much into proper construction of words. haha my bad. so yun nga. anu kaya dapat kong gawin para hindi masyadong halatado yun pag ulit ko ng tops aside from pairing it with different types of bottoms such as jeans, leggings or skirt. problem number 2. lulubus lubusin ko na to Ms Leyn :D I’ve mentioned earlier na medium built ako & proportioned naman po yun figure ko. the problem is yun braso ko. feeling ko, anlaki nya :( yun na lagi kong pinoproblema kaya as in super seldom nako mag sleeveless :( feeling ko, am carrying a pair of troso, pwera exaggeration pero yun talaga feeling ko. huhu. nu kaya pede kong gawin para mapaliit yun braso ko. hope you have some idea.

lastly, yun hair ko :(   I got my hair done for 2 weeks from now. maiksi sya but its layered. nakakainis lang, kase merun syang sariling mundo.. pumupunta kung saan nya gusto. haha. nu ba dapat kong iapply para maging manageable yun maliit kong buhok?

ayun. am hoping for your response even if this letter of mine is quite senseless. nyahaha. any advice will be highly appreciated :)

CONGRATS PALA FOR THIS GREAT SITE AND MORE POWER :)

lovelovelove

Thea

Dear Thea,

Hey there, thanks for discovering my blog. Frankly, your issues are quite vague so I’ll just post the ABCs and I hope they will help you a bit.

First, about the mixing and matching of clothes. I get that you might be on a budget but you shouldn’t just focus on your clothes. Make sure you also have enough pairs of shoes, bags and accessories. Also, next time you shop, pick simple clothes without too many prints so you can match them up easily.

Try wearing blazers or cardigans. Though you may feel uncomfortable because it’s summer and if you’re working in non-airconditioned rooms. But if you’re willing to wear blazers, tiis-ganda nalang. Hehe.

Honestly, it won’t be a problem if you don’t put too much pressure on yourself. I actually understand your sentiments because I also had that “image” where co-workers keep on commending my fashion taste so it urged me to buy more clothes just to maintain my fashionista status. Ayun, naubos pera ko. Lol. So instead of spending too much on garbs, I thought of different styles for my hair and collected accessories. Don’t feel restless because it’s okay to repeat clothes. Everyone does that.

Second, about the fatty arms. You’re still lucky because of your tall height. I know a lot can relate with this but fatty arms are more noticeable when you’re shorter. Fashion-wise, you can still wear sleeveless tops but pick styles with ruffles and butterfly sleeves to camouflage your arms. According to my gym-instructor friend, the only way to make your arms smaller is through dieting. Working out those arms won’t totally reduce the fat but will develop muscles.

Lastly, about the hair. Mentioning that your hair isn’t manageable, I assume that your hair is from medium to coarse thick type. I already had a blog post about the same problem that you can check. To summarize it, here are your options plus their pros and cons:

  • Undergo a relax treatment –long term but costly depending on the salon
  • Apply conditioner daily then iron your hair –may dry your strands
  • Apply hair mousse – feels sticky and strong hold

Remember that not all hairstyle may fit us. Shorter hair won’t be high maintenance for girls with fine/thin strands of hair. So as of now, the best way is to have the treatment or have patience ironing and applying hair mousse.

I hope you won’t get frustrated with my honest response. Haha. But I believe you can handle your look naman knowing that your officemates are noticing your sense of style. Anyhow, thanks for liking my blog. ;)

Good luck!

Love lots,

Leyn