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February 27, 2010 @ 7:00 pm

Meet the Parents

Hi!

I really find your site helpful especially in the fashion section :) I just want to ask what type of clothing can I wear in meeting “the parents”? :) Thank you.

Trx

Dear Trx,

Good day!  Basically, meeting “the parents” should leave a good impression so stay simple, that’s it. Although, your outfit should also portray your personality. For example, if you’re a girly gal, stick with a light sundress or any dainty clothing. Then if you’re the casual type of person, wear a blouse and slim jeans.

Pick light colors like pastel shades, white or peach. For an updated fashion, tulip dresses are all the rage this season.

There’s nothing wrong if you’re in flip-flops or rubber slippers but you’ll look more prepared with flat sandals that can go along with any outfit. Same with tops. Choose your best blouse instead of your regular boyish t-shirt.

Avoid using too much make-up and dark shades. Don’t apply lipstick and use a lipgloss instead. Cover dark circles using a concealer and give a final touch with a light face powder. One more thing, I just assumed that this day will be a simple gathering but upgrade your outfit to a simple cocktail dress if you’re going out for a formal dinner.

Break a leg and always flash a smile!

Love Lots,

Leyn

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February 26, 2010 @ 7:00 pm

Mix and Match

Sosyalera,

Hi, hope everything’s well with you. I’ve started browsing your site a week ago and now I can proudly say that am a BIG Fan of yours just like the others. I found your advices and opinions very useful to your readers which inspired me to write also some of my concerns regarding my so-called-fashion-and-everything. haha.

ganto po kase, i’m working as a secretary in one of the prestigious universities here in manila i’m 22, standing 5′6″, fair skin and medium built. My problem is not that malala. meron lang kasing mga tao na pumupuna sa daily outfit ko. (BTW wala kaming uniform.) I’ve been working for three years of having no permanent outfit so mejo mahirap nuh? sinasabi nila na maganda daw ako magdala ng damit and kahit anu daw isuot ko bagay. on my part, its flattering and at the same time. nakaka ilang or nakaka pressure in a way na hindi ko na alam kung isusuot ko pa ba yun ulit dahil sa napansin na nila? waaa I hope am making sense here. pasensya naman if am not much into proper construction of words. haha my bad. so yun nga. anu kaya dapat kong gawin para hindi masyadong halatado yun pag ulit ko ng tops aside from pairing it with different types of bottoms such as jeans, leggings or skirt. problem number 2. lulubus lubusin ko na to Ms Leyn :D I’ve mentioned earlier na medium built ako & proportioned naman po yun figure ko. the problem is yun braso ko. feeling ko, anlaki nya :( yun na lagi kong pinoproblema kaya as in super seldom nako mag sleeveless :( feeling ko, am carrying a pair of troso, pwera exaggeration pero yun talaga feeling ko. huhu. nu kaya pede kong gawin para mapaliit yun braso ko. hope you have some idea.

lastly, yun hair ko :(   I got my hair done for 2 weeks from now. maiksi sya but its layered. nakakainis lang, kase merun syang sariling mundo.. pumupunta kung saan nya gusto. haha. nu ba dapat kong iapply para maging manageable yun maliit kong buhok?

ayun. am hoping for your response even if this letter of mine is quite senseless. nyahaha. any advice will be highly appreciated :)

CONGRATS PALA FOR THIS GREAT SITE AND MORE POWER :)

lovelovelove

Thea

Dear Thea,

Hey there, thanks for discovering my blog. Frankly, your issues are quite vague so I’ll just post the ABCs and I hope they will help you a bit.

First, about the mixing and matching of clothes. I get that you might be on a budget but you shouldn’t just focus on your clothes. Make sure you also have enough pairs of shoes, bags and accessories. Also, next time you shop, pick simple clothes without too many prints so you can match them up easily.

Try wearing blazers or cardigans. Though you may feel uncomfortable because it’s summer and if you’re working in non-airconditioned rooms. But if you’re willing to wear blazers, tiis-ganda nalang. Hehe.

Honestly, it won’t be a problem if you don’t put too much pressure on yourself. I actually understand your sentiments because I also had that “image” where co-workers keep on commending my fashion taste so it urged me to buy more clothes just to maintain my fashionista status. Ayun, naubos pera ko. Lol. So instead of spending too much on garbs, I thought of different styles for my hair and collected accessories. Don’t feel restless because it’s okay to repeat clothes. Everyone does that.

Second, about the fatty arms. You’re still lucky because of your tall height. I know a lot can relate with this but fatty arms are more noticeable when you’re shorter. Fashion-wise, you can still wear sleeveless tops but pick styles with ruffles and butterfly sleeves to camouflage your arms. According to my gym-instructor friend, the only way to make your arms smaller is through dieting. Working out those arms won’t totally reduce the fat but will develop muscles.

Lastly, about the hair. Mentioning that your hair isn’t manageable, I assume that your hair is from medium to coarse thick type. I already had a blog post about the same problem that you can check. To summarize it, here are your options plus their pros and cons:

  • Undergo a relax treatment –long term but costly depending on the salon
  • Apply conditioner daily then iron your hair –may dry your strands
  • Apply hair mousse – feels sticky and strong hold

Remember that not all hairstyle may fit us. Shorter hair won’t be high maintenance for girls with fine/thin strands of hair. So as of now, the best way is to have the treatment or have patience ironing and applying hair mousse.

I hope you won’t get frustrated with my honest response. Haha. But I believe you can handle your look naman knowing that your officemates are noticing your sense of style. Anyhow, thanks for liking my blog. ;)

Good luck!

Love lots,

Leyn

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February 26, 2010 @ 6:00 pm

Fashion Online

Fashion on the World Wide Web is a great way for the online market to draw lots of relevant fashion research at the tip of their fingertips. Fashion is all about being up to the minute with the latest trends and runway reports that can influence our own sense of style. Most chic websites focus on ladies fashion like online shops and lookbook inspiration.

In the competitive industry of fashion, internet savvy consumers will be one that takes advantage of every opportunity available to them and stays ahead of the updates using the latest and most innovative method of communication – the Internet. Through the web, consumers may be able to check the latest news regarding beauty, wellness and lifestyle advice.

A fashion blog is also a way of presenting everyday reviews in forms of articles, images and videos. Fashion chicks is one example of a site that caters substantial reviews about apparel, beauty products and brands.

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February 22, 2010 @ 5:00 pm

Basic Accessories Tips

Hello Leyn,

Good day!!

I’ve been reading your blog during the past week and I’m proud to say that I’ve read all your posts. Hahaha! Very informative at nakakaaliw yung mga banat mo. Natatawa ako dun sa friendster pose dahil sa totoo lang, guilty ako dun. Good thing, sa Starbucks pose ay hindi, dahil bihira ako magpunta dun at di lang naman Starbucks ang may masarap na kape. Hehe! I hope regular ka pa rin magpost at tumagal pa lalo ang domain mo.

Anyway, here goes my problem. This is Ann nga pala at ang aking simpleng pangalan ay kasing simple rin ng aking personality. I’m pretty much the shy kind of girl. Very simple lang rin ako manamit. Natutunan ko nga sa post mo na kung simple lang yung clothes, you can still make it fasionable by accessorizing. So right now, I’m thinking of improving my fashion sense through accessories. I’m on a tight budget kasi kaya di ako makakabili ng new sets of clothes for a make over. Usually bumibili lang ako ng damit kapag Christmas, may special occasion o kapag may nakita ako na gustong gusto ko talaga. When it comes to accessories, I usually buy earrings and bracelets. I also have 2 watches. Di ako masyado mahilig sa rings. Di rin ako masyado mahilig sa necklace dahil di ako kumportable around the neck. But I still might consider necklaces if you suggest it. ^^ So ayun. Gusto ko sanang humingi ng tips on how to pick the right kind of accessories for me and on which setting would it be appropriate. By the way, I’m chubby, 5′2 and fair skinned.

I hope you can help me with this Leyn. It will be very much appreciated. Thank you and God bless you always. :D

Love lots,

Simple Ann

Dear Simple Ann,

I can’t believe you read all my posts. Seriously? From 2008? Lol. I hope you’ll visit my blog regularly. Thanks dear.

Anyhow, here it goes. Even though you wear plain blouses or dresses, accessories can do the trick on improving your look. So for the benefit of everyone, I’ll give simple tips on how to pick the basic accessories:

1. Buy a kikay box or necklace holder where you can put all your fancy accessories. Designating a small space for your things can urge you to collect baubles and use them daily. You should also have a jewelry box for more valuable accessories.

2. Next is to know the different accessories that don’t get laos so you can use them anytime. Avoid buying things that can only match one clothing. Example, inside your box, try to at least collect the following:

3. If you’d notice, these are classic accessories that you can wear with any mood. Once you have already collected the basics, that’s the time you can buy accessories that get popular every now and then. As of the moment, layered and ribbon necklaces are in.

4. Be particular with the color. Since you’re fair skinned, any color will do. (For morenas, avoid shocking colors please.) Think of the clothes inside your closet so you’d know what shades will match your usual outfit.

5. As you have mentioned, you’re already collecting bracelets and earrings but I suggest that you keep aside those are of poor quality. Personally speaking, I’m not a fan of funky and big plastic accessories because they look cheap/overrated. So make sure you check the quality. Also prioritize simplicity and elegance.

6. Invest on a set of fine jewelry (when you have already the budget). Kahit isang set lang. Pearls/Gold/White Gold doesn’t go out of date.

7. Keeping two watches is enough. But ideally it would be better if 1 watch looks casual and the other one would be the classic watch that you can wear on formal days. Okay din yung mga watches na mukhang charm bracelet.

8. I also don’t collect rings because I usually lose them. But try to have at least have a simple trademark ring you can wear everyday.

Buy one at a time. Don’t just buy accessories for the sake of piling up your box. Spend on things that you can use for years.

Good luck and keep up the good start! ;)

Love Lots,

Leyn

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February 19, 2010 @ 3:59 pm

Long Dress

hi leyn,

hi! i know u’ve been receiving mails about graduation, mine is one of those but pls help me.

my graduation is coming (masteral graduation) & its one of the occasions i hate most! I don’t want to wear dresses. i’m not comfortable but since its graduation no choice. i must wear dress.

but this is the problem, i’m not comfortable because i dont have the body, legs & skin to show. wala talaga akong confidence to wear dresses more so with a cocktail dress! i have a terrible shape of legs & kelangang itago. so i chose to wear long dress, off white daw color namin. i’m not wearing sleeveless kc ang laki ng braso ko and uneven ang tone. (huhuhu. wawa naman ako no? dmi problem. =(

kaya im begging you. pls help me choose the right one for me & the one that i will be comfortable & confident. i’m 5 feet & medyo malaman (120lbs). pakisama na rin ang babagay na shoes for that dress.

thank you so much in advance & God bless you always so you could help/enlighten more people.

it’s me,
Cel

Dear Cel,

I know this is kind of bit hard for you but don’t worry, every problem has its matching solution. Obviously, you seem very conscious with your figure so I won’t force you to wear clothes that you might not be comfortable with. If your first choice is a long dress then stick to the idea, we can consider this a formal event anyway.

Since you have already set boundaries with the style of dress you want (not cocktail and no to sleeveless) then you only have limited choices specially that you’re required with a color theme. The challenge now is to look for a quality dress with quality fabric and fits right on your body.

When we say long dresses, first thing we think of are straight styles that may not be appropriate with your shape and balloon skirt gowns don’t fit the occasion. So I recommend dresses with volume, drapes and asymmetric cut – a flowing dress to make it simple. Go with thin fabric/texture but make sure it doesn’t have too much folds and creases.

I understand that you don’t plan to wear sleeveless but the dress’ design cited below is a good sample of flowing dress.

Drapes and pleats can hide flabs. Avoid plain straight maxi dresses.

You may be weirded out by asymmetric clothes but their shapeless style doesn’t require perfect curves.

So your next problem is WHERE to buy the dress. I suggest you should do your window shopping by now. There are mid-class stores that sell different formal dresses in department stores (try to browse some previous posts, I don’t want to mention too much brands because I’m not paid to endorse. lol.)

About the shoes, wear at least mid-heels sandals or platforms. Spot for black or any neutral colors like these:

Remember, you may not have the ideal shape but that shouldn’t be a reason to limit yourself with fashion. Try to update your clothes little by little, don’t be in a hurry.

And don’t panic okay. :)

Love Lots,

Leyn

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February 17, 2010 @ 3:49 pm

Hi everyone,

Just so you know, my host’s email is acting weird every now and then so last week (i think), some letters were auto removed from my inbox and deleted letters were retrieved. I apologize if I wasn’t able to reply on particular letters for prom hairstyle and wedding theme. Geez. ;(

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February 3, 2010 @ 10:00 am

Graduation Dress

hi leyn :P
wenk feeling close. haha.
i really like your posts, lalo na yung mga jologs pictures. thankfully sa friendster pose lang ako guilty. wahaha :D anyway, im graduating from college sa march, and i was wondering if you could help me pick the right dress and shoes and give me an idea on the right hair and makeup. im 5′4, 108 lbs. long hair, fair skin, chinita. 7am-12nn yung grad namin, so malamang sa oo e ako na lang mag me-make up sa sarili ko. :O ayun. thank you in advance :)

Hey there,

Don’t worry because most people who visit my site are up to the jologs ideas because everyone can relate, including me of course. I remember during my graduation, we were making fun of some girls who wore dresses longer than their toga. (Yes, I’m one of the mean girls back then. Lol.) Anyhow, because you’re graduating from college then I guess you’ll be in a black graduation gown. Let’s start from there.

You may think that it doesn’t matter whether you wear a spaghetti, tube, off-shoulder or with sleeves dress because you’ll be in a toga. But to avoid fixing your graduation attire all the time, pick a sleeveless or spaghetti strap type. A simple and straight cocktail dress is enough.

For shoes, wear the classic black pumps but not the common school shoes. It’s fine for you to wear sandals but it depends on your taste. I just find closed shoes apt for this occasion because it looks more sophisticated.

On your graduation day, everyone will look alike because of the standard toga. That’s why your look rely upon on your hair and make-up. Common sense na your hairstyle should be minimal because of the cap. So if you’re not hiring someone to do your styling, it’s either you do the soft curls or low-back up do hairstyle.

For make-up, quit the red lipstick and smoky eyes then stick with the natural shades. It won’t be hard for you to choose the right colors because you have fair skin. Concentrate on your lashes and practice putting on eyeliner and mascara for your chinky eyes. Contour your cheeks to add shadows and avoid a flat-looking make-up. Also bring a handy peach lip gloss for retouches. Here are some inspirations:

Lastly, don’t forget to wear elegant earrings. A pair of pearls or gold with gems can change your boyish aura to a classy chick.

Enjoy your graduation and congratulations!

Love Lots,

Leyn

hi leyn :P
wenk feeling close. haha.
i really like your posts, lalo na yung mga jologs pictures. thankfully sa friendster pose lang

ako guilty. wahaha :D anyway, im graduating from college sa march, and i was wondering if

you could help me pick the right dress and shoes and give me an idea on the right hair and

makeup. im 5′4, 108 lbs. long hair, fair skin, chinita. 7am-12nn yung grad namin, so

malamang sa oo e ako na lang mag me-make up sa sarili ko. :O ayun. thank you in advance

:)

p.s. one of the boys pala ko. hahaha. hindi tibo no, boyish lang. dahil lalaki parin ang type ko.

:P

Hey there,

Don’t worry because most people who visit my site are up to the jologs ideas because

everyone can relate, including me. Hehe. Anyhow, I remember during my graduation, we

were making fun of some girls who wore dresses longer than their toga. (Yes, I’m one of the

mean girls back then. Lol.) And because you’re graduating from college then I guess you’ll be

in a black graduation gown. Let’s start from there.

You may think that it doesn’t matter whether you wear a spaghetti, tube, off-shoulder or with

sleeves dress because you’ll be in a toga. But to avoid fixing your graduation attire

constantly, pick a sleeveless or spaghetti strap type. A simple and straight cocktail dress is

enough.

For shoes, wear the classic black pumps but not the common school shoes. It’s fine for you to

wear sandals but it depends on your taste. I just find closed shoes apt for this occasion

because it looks more sophisticated.

On your graduation day, everyone will look alike because of the standard toga. That’s why

your look rely upon on your hair and make-up. Common sense na your hairstyle should be

minimal because of the cap. So if you’re not hiring someone to do your styling, it’s either you

do the soft curls or low-back up do hairstyle.

For make-up, quit the red lipstick and smoky eyes then stick with the natural shades. It won’t

be hard for you to choose the right colors because you have fair skin. Concentrate on your

lashes and practice putting on eyeliner and mascara for your chinky eyes. Contour your

cheeks to add shadows and avoid a flat-looking make-up. Also bring a handy peach lip gloss

for retouches. Here are some inspirations:

Lastly, don’t forget to wear elegant earrings. A pair of pearls or gold with gems can change

your boyish aura to a classy chick.

Enjoy your graduation and congratulations!

Love Lots,

Leyn

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February 3, 2010 @ 7:30 am

Online Coupons

Internet is the best way to find online coupons. These are not just useful for the internet consumers but they aid the retailers to boost their business. Shoppers will be more likely to patronize your products if they find a convenient way and user-friendly website interface to avail the discounts or to save money.

Hence, where can you get coupons from? There are many websites specialized to compiling Coupons Online. There different coupon sites that are dedicated for fashion, clothing, gadgets, and food like Coupons for Restaurants. You can use them and save your money on particular items they are meant for.

Aside from these online good finds, learn more about How to Save Cash and maximize your funds with the use of Internet.

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